What people are saying.

  • “I’ve been going to therapy weekly for years, so I wasn’t sure what coaching could offer that therapy didn’t. But working with Patrick turned out to be surprisingly refreshing. He’s direct, but not harsh — the way he asked questions helped me pinpoint exactly where I was stuck. I walked away from each session with a clearer plan of action and a deeper understanding of myself.”

    —  Cindy, Data Scientist

    Charlotte, North Carolina

  • “I used to think dreams had an expiration date — that once you reached a certain age, your role was to support others, not chase your own desires. Patrick challenged that. He reminded me that my dream of owning a travel company wasn’t silly or selfish — it was possible. With his encouragement, I stopped letting doubt run the show. Today, my children work alongside me in the business, and it feels like life is just beginning again.”

    — L., Wanderlust CEO

    Accra, Ghana

  • “I grew up in a world where emotional expression wasn’t encouraged — especially for men. For years, I didn’t even realize how much I’d shut myself off. Patrick’s approach was something else: unfiltered, compassionate, and never performative. Somehow, his honesty made it easier for me to be honest too. Our work together helped me rebuild how I show up in my relationship — not by fixing myself, but by finally being myself.”

    — Chris

    Bronx, New York

  • “Being a bisexual man in a country where my identity is criminalized is emotionally exhausting. The fear, the isolation — it’s something I’ve lived with for as long as I can remember. Finding Patrick was a turning point. In our sessions, I feel seen, understood, and safe. It matters deeply that he shares some of my cultural background, because I don’t have to explain everything — he just gets it. The resources he shared, like The Velvet Rage, gave me language and strength I didn’t know I had.”

    V.

    Accra, Ghana

  • “After being diagnosed with an STD, I fell into a dark place. Coming from a conservative Asian family, there was so much shame — and the therapist I saw only reinforced that. But Patrick? He met me with zero judgment and so much warmth. He made me laugh again — something I hadn’t done in months. That first session helped me start forgiving myself. Now, I’m rebuilding my confidence and setting boundaries I never thought I had the right to.”

    — Kate 

    United Kingdom

  • “As a married woman with a public profile, I felt trapped by my husband’s affairs and the shame it brought. I couldn’t confide in friends or family — it felt too risky. With Patrick, I found a safe space to speak openly, be vulnerable, and start reclaiming my voice. He helped me realize I can’t control someone else’s behavior, only how I respond to it. His cultural understanding made all the difference. I’m not fully healed, but I’m no longer drowning — and for that, I’m deeply grateful.”

    B

    Kampala, Uganda